I started working with Kimberly 8 months ago and the man I am today, is much different than the man I was then. Outwardly I had it all - fit, fun and financially successful, but inside I felt empty and hollow. I kept chasing something, but could never find it. A friend of mine mentioned he was working with Kimberly to help with an unresolved issue that was affecting his business performance, so I wondered if that was my problem too. To my surprise it was. Once we figured it out, my world changed. While my business had always been good now it is great. I know for sure I'm the best version of myself now - and can be that for my wife, my children, my business and my staff. For the first time, I truly feel like I can have it all and that I'm not a fraud waiting to be found out, because of my past. Life is good. Don't wait, the time is now.
My husband and I started working with Kimberly after our divorce was finalized. We wish we would have found her sooner, as we are now the happiest we have been - after almost 35 years together. We've worked with other therapists and had no resolve, nothing made sense and eventually we ended up divorced. After meeting with Kimberly, she was able to easily explain to us what was going on, how trauma issues had been impacting and affecting each other & our behaviours and helped us create a healing path to resolve our hurts with our pasts and each other & to learn to trust in our love and relationship again. We're happily ``re-engaged`` to be married, to pick up some new pieces and to finally get on track with us and the relationship we always wanted to have. Its never too late to be happy and its never too late to heal anything that has been getting in your way.
I've moved from one unhealthy relationship to another my whole life. I've done it all to escape - drugs, alcohol, sex, eating - you name it. I had enough hate, shame and self loathing to never recover, yet I did. Kimberly tells me its because I had it all inside, but what I will say, is that without her, I'm not sure I would have found it or figured out how to use it. She is tough but fair, firm but loving. She is consistent, she is reliable and she is safe. Those were all firsts in my life. I'm not sure what life has in store for me, but I know for sure that my life is heading in the right direction, with the right people. Facing my demons from the past, was the hardest thing I've ever done. But coming out the other side is amazing. I have both my body and my mind back, and they're working together for the first time in a long time. She works in such a gentle way, which is wonderful as I couldnt have handled anything else that hurt. I had almost given up when I was told about Kimberly. All I did was make one call and my life started to change. That was the one thing I did differently. What will you do differently, today?
As CEO of my own company for over 30 years, I am not used to not being in control, or not having all of the answers. Needless to say this didn't help with my marriage. A friend of mine and his wife worked with Kimberly and it saved their marriage, so I had nothing to lose but everything to gain. To my great surprise, there are reasons for why I am the way I am and I don't have to change everything to be happy or to make my wife happy. Sometimes understanding what is happening and making small consistent changes is enough. We've only been working with Kimberly for 3 months, but the changes in our relationship have been astounding. Not saying its all easy but its worth it. If you have a relationship worth saving, fight for it with Kimberly's help. She has a way of explaining things that just make sense, and when things make sense, answers and change are possible. We can't wait to see where we are in another 3 months.
My wife and I have been working with Kimberly for the last 9 months. My wife has Aspergers and I have had a lifetime of traumatic experiences. We didn't realize what impact of both of our situations, would have on each other as individuals and on our relationship. With Kimberly's help, we've learned how to communicate, how to figure out what our triggers are together and for each other, and work together to resolve them. We've learned to rebuild trust and safety with and for each other and we've been able to model this for our 3 daughters. Our lives as a couple and as a family have changed and we are forever grateful. Doing this work is life changing and is something you will never regret.
As a successful entrepreneur, I was great at building businesses, but not at building myself. I soon found myself out of balance, overweight, single and frustrated. I'm intelligent but just couldn't figure it out. Then I heard about Kimberly and everything changed. She helped me get myself and my personal life on track, heading in the direction I wanted. I have lost 45 pounds and am in the best shape of my life. I'm now representing myself and my brand, personally & professionally - just the way I want to. I feel balanced, am back in alignment with my purpose. I really had no idea how my past was affecting me and preventing me from being the success I wanted to be. Those things are now in the past as I move forward confidently and successfully. It wasn't easy, but it was worth the time and investment. If you're ready, call Kimberly, period.
I started working with Kimberly during a point in my life where I tried to live as though my past had no effect on me. In reality I knew it was, but I didn’t want to go “there” and just wanted “results”. As a man, needing anybody was hard enough, but add in the past issues that made me feel less than, was almost too much to share. Kimberly was kind, patient and used her crazy skills and on track intuition to know when to support and when to push. She made me feel safe enough to look at the issues & obstacles, then helped me to plan and integrate this new knowledge into all areas of my life – personally and professionally. Having the “whole life” approach really helped me to make positive changes with my life and my kids. For you guys who are afraid to do some personal work in general, or specifically with a woman, I highly recommend Kimberly. Her honest, but thorough, effective, results oriented approach may be just what you need too.
One of my friends worked with Kimberly and told me I should work with her. I finally called her and my life has literally done a 180 turn for the better. I found my missing pieces,I found my confidence and I found my courage to step into my dreams and make them a reality. I've always been successful in business, or so I thought, but since starting to work with Kimberly, everything has gotten better at work too. My bottom line has more than doubled, and I know for sure I'm in the right place, at the right time, doing the right thing. I'm not sure I would have said that without working with Kimberly and figuring out what was holding me back. In hindsight it is so easy to see how it all happened and why. I'm so grateful for Kimberly and the work she has done with me & my nervous system. Trauma is no joke, and recovery should be taken just as seriously.
I was one of those people who was taught to just get on with life, not dwell on the things you can't change, no sense in taking etc., Then my son committed suicide and my world fell apart. My wife and I have since divorced. So when I heard about Kimberly, I had nothing left to lose. I had no idea what to do or say and that was ok. She just let me talk things through. She helped me to feel the pain and move through it. After 6 months I finally felt like I could breathe again, like it was ok to still be living while my son was dead. In hindsight, I wish my son could have seen Kimberly and maybe his outcome would have been different. I know without a doubt, my plans to join him have changed. I can't change what my son did and I can't change how my ex-wife is coping, but I can take care of myself and live my life in a way that will honour myself and my son, and that is something worth living for.
My wife worked with Kimberly and after seeing the changes in her, thought it might be time to do my own work. I've lived with survivors guilt for most of my life after a childhood accident took the life of my sister. I have lived half of a life because of what I believed about myself and what life I did live, was focused on punishing myself for not saving her. I know I am not done yet, but my life today is so different than it was before. I am learning to love myself. I am finally able to let my wife in. I have shared with my children and am working to heal this with my parents, who luckily are still alive. I couldn't have done this without Kimberly.
I was referred to Kimberly through a friend who had great weight loss results. But truly, the weight loss I've experienced is only one small part of my success. I didn't realize how much I felt like a fraud in my business life because of how I used to look. I didn't realize how much I kept people at a distance because I was afraid to be seen. The weight was the symptom of the problem and also the way I resolved the problem - so it was tricky to deal with. Kimberly was so patient with me and walked me through each step. As I started losing the weight, other triggers and issues came up and she was there with me every part of the way, supporting with me. She prepared me for everything that was coming and we had a plan to make it through, and we did. I've now lost 73 pounds and regained my life - my entire life - including the parts I didn't even know were missing because of the weight. I'm no longer a fraud in my own eyes, I'm no longer a failure in my own eyes. I'm finally me - and I love me for perhaps the very first time. I let my past trauma control me for 20+ years through my weight, but no more. Kimberly can help you, jus like she helped me. She's done it herself, so she knows what she's talking about.
My wife and I started seeing Kimberly a year ago via Zoom. I had no illusions or expectations and thought for sure divorce was in our future, but went to sessions anyways. To be honest, my wife and I had a few sessions, separately - from different rooms, or different cities, that is how little we could stand each other at times. Then by some miracle, the answers started coming, information started making sense, our lives started making sense, the problems in our relationship started making sense. We stopped being seen as bad people to each other and started being seen as people who had wounds that made them behave in ways that unfortunately triggered each other. From this place, the attack & blame game stopped and we could love & trust each other again. It didn't happen over night, but it happened and thats all that mattered. If anybody in your relationship has experienced trauma - trust me, its showing up and is playing a bigger role than you thought. Kimberly can help you figure it all out and help you to create the relationship you both want.